A bit of Online following or Cyberstalking

I confess that I’ve been doing a bit of cyber-stalking myself over the past few days.

Call it stemming from a slight dissatisfaction in life, a subtle insecurity, a minor misalignment in expectations or a kinda bored search, I admit to doing it.

Lots of channels available these days, aren’t they? To do both: Show that you are better, sexier and happier than the others… As well as to make sure your peers/associates/exes are not as much.

Facebook: Ah, the mother of them all.

It would not just take the privacy settings of yours to prevent someone from getting hold of one of your photos, but also your friends, family and anyone you’ve been photographed with (vacation, work, study group, party, tour).

And not everyone of them are having “STRICT” settings, are they?

So, how to prevent others from finding your latest whatever? How to get people to be still mysterious about you?

There is no way, to be honest. Everything is online. Everyone has access (proper or legal is a different matter altogether) to most of your information. A determined person might just knock at your doorstep.

Babies Love!

I saw this meme the other day and thought that the meme maker had quite a creative way of looking at things.

Then I started pondering on this.

Being a parent myself now, I consider that, though this meme might not be a serious one, it does give out an indirect message on life.

“Everyone Loves Them”

Yes, who doesn’t love a baby? Ladies go “Awwww…”, girls go “Hey….”, most people want to carry it. Even the most brutal of us smile at a baby.

But is this because of its cuteness? Its soft skin, nice smell, general vulnerability?

Nothing right?

The answer: It is just because a baby LOVES everybody.

And yes, it is the purest form of love.

A baby loves everyone around it, without any bias. It has no preconceived notion, no skin-color based preference, no race or language bias.

So, if you accept this theory, the slightly modified variation of it also holds true to a great extent:

Even as an adult, if we love everyone around us people would start loving us for what we are.

(There are many complaints these days on wanting to be accepted for what one is)

Just like how a baby loves them purely, perhaps acceptance is what people around us need too?

My Tagline


Think about this. Now let me defend (or render more meaning to) this my way.

The Mystery:

Can any of you predict life? Can you tell me where you’ll be 30 days from now? Chances are you might make a guess and it might turn out to be true. But if you really think, no one can be sure.


The underlying psych behind most of the things in life is simple. We are the ones who make it complex.

Just focus on long-term goals, suck up the courage to face what must be faced and get on with it. You’ll soon discover that life is pretty simple.

Mind you, I’m not saying life is easy. Simple is never easy.  Some might seem to have it easy, but more on this later.


“I see all this potential, and I see it squandered. God damn it, an entire generation pumping gas, waiting tables – slaves with white collars. Advertising has us chasing cars and clothes, working jobs we hate so we can buy shit we don’t need. We’re the middle children of history, man. No purpose or place. We have no Great War. No Great Depression. Our great war is a spiritual war… Our great depression is our lives. We’ve all been raised on television to believe that one day we’d all be millionaires, and movie gods, and rock stars, but we won’t. We’re slowly learning that fact. And we’re very, very pissed off.” – This immortal quote by Chuck Palahniuk in Fight Club summarizes everything that makes us ungreat.

Our lives are already great. Chances are that, if you are reading this, you have access to a live internet connection, know how to read and know how to use the internet. If you already have these and yet you feel not-so-great, read “THE SIMPLICITY” again.

Happy New Year 2018

Wishing a very happy new year 2018 to you and your family.

May this year be the end of all the postponement. May this year act as your boost. May you achieve all the growth that you wanted to.

May peace, prosperity and happiness jostle with each other to be with you in turns.

Remember, this is the first day of a year, this is also the first day of the rest of your life.

Be humble. Be motivated. Stay calm.

My First Blog Post

For the few followers of my blog last time around: Sorry for the disappointment.

I’m restarting my blog.

For the new ones:

I’ve always been interested in writing some form of nonsense or the other. And this is my first proper platform to express myself.

Let me assure you that if you follow my blog – or, better still, subscribe – you’ll benefit from the useful content, humorously expressed.

I plan to brush upon my enthusiasm in books, movies, business, lifestyle, automobiles and a few other stuff.

And by the way, everything in life is writable about if you have the outgoing guts to do it, and the imagination to improvise.  The worst enemy to creativity is self-doubt. 

                              ~ Sylvia Plath

Once again, I thank you for taking your time to read through and I ask you to wish me luck and give me your support in this writing journey of mine!